After looking at the sky for the past 2 weeks, refusing to deal with life on earth I decided I should go back to a very important topic: What is wrong with MEN!!
When a womanizer tells you to be careful of another womanizer, which one of the two should you believe? The womanizer or the womanizer?
Did you ever notice that a womanizer suddenly becomes a caring friend when asked about another guy; he tells you to be careful, that you will get hurt, that he is not serious and most probably would break your heart, when he had done the same things few months, weeks or even days ago... So what would you do in this case? Believe him and forget the crush you have on the other womanizer or just be adventurous and decide to unveil the truth by yourself?
A year ago I met an academic young man who was in Lebanon for research for a year or so… I had a crush on his country and he had a crush on both mine… We were both impressed by each other but our relation was simply friendship. I think we also shared a small crush on each other but none of us dared doing the effort; we both were a bit too cautious after bad experiences the year before.
We lost touch for several months but then I saw him on a hot summer Beirut day and he was completely different! He had become so confident, Did not look so academic anymore, but looked more of an “American Gigolo,” 3 decades later… He hardly talked to me and this was quite upsetting; I thought we were friends who impressed each other with our political and social statements, did he move on? Later on I heard that he has been having such a great time in Lebanon, that his intimate life was very successful and that he has been one of Lebanon’s TOP ex-pat men. Honestly this simply disappointed me. He was so much easier to talk to before, now I just felt I needed an appointment to get him to talk to me. Well few weeks later I learned that I just needed to have an attractive look, which I had that night, and he would notice me in a second, which he did.
Now something about women_ that I doubt men are aware of_ is that when they have a gossip material, they really use it and abuse it! I kept hearing from here and there, my female friends from different tastes in men talking about him: Some would say that he was so much cuter before, while others would say that he looked really different and sexy now and much more attractive. But one thing we all agreed on was that he had changed a lot and it was all because of the female attention he was having since he arrived in Lebanon. Which left me thinking if it was his fault or the Lebanese women’s fault.
Do women have this effect on men? Do we collaborate in giving them the confidence to change from being once simple and honest men and becoming womanizers? NOD!!
So my American-Gigolo-academic friend was online last time and I wanted to ask him for some gossip about Monsieur J. This was 2 months ago, when Monsieur J made himself present in my life. The first thing the academic guy said was:
D do not get into him… he is a womanizer!!!
I paused, wondering if he knew that he was also one… Then he went on: “Of course like many of us.” I smiled... Yeah he knew…
When a womanizer tells you to be careful of another womanizer, which one of the two should you believe? The womanizer or the womanizer?
Did you ever notice that a womanizer suddenly becomes a caring friend when asked about another guy; he tells you to be careful, that you will get hurt, that he is not serious and most probably would break your heart, when he had done the same things few months, weeks or even days ago... So what would you do in this case? Believe him and forget the crush you have on the other womanizer or just be adventurous and decide to unveil the truth by yourself?
A year ago I met an academic young man who was in Lebanon for research for a year or so… I had a crush on his country and he had a crush on both mine… We were both impressed by each other but our relation was simply friendship. I think we also shared a small crush on each other but none of us dared doing the effort; we both were a bit too cautious after bad experiences the year before.
We lost touch for several months but then I saw him on a hot summer Beirut day and he was completely different! He had become so confident, Did not look so academic anymore, but looked more of an “American Gigolo,” 3 decades later… He hardly talked to me and this was quite upsetting; I thought we were friends who impressed each other with our political and social statements, did he move on? Later on I heard that he has been having such a great time in Lebanon, that his intimate life was very successful and that he has been one of Lebanon’s TOP ex-pat men. Honestly this simply disappointed me. He was so much easier to talk to before, now I just felt I needed an appointment to get him to talk to me. Well few weeks later I learned that I just needed to have an attractive look, which I had that night, and he would notice me in a second, which he did.
Now something about women_ that I doubt men are aware of_ is that when they have a gossip material, they really use it and abuse it! I kept hearing from here and there, my female friends from different tastes in men talking about him: Some would say that he was so much cuter before, while others would say that he looked really different and sexy now and much more attractive. But one thing we all agreed on was that he had changed a lot and it was all because of the female attention he was having since he arrived in Lebanon. Which left me thinking if it was his fault or the Lebanese women’s fault.
Do women have this effect on men? Do we collaborate in giving them the confidence to change from being once simple and honest men and becoming womanizers? NOD!!
So my American-Gigolo-academic friend was online last time and I wanted to ask him for some gossip about Monsieur J. This was 2 months ago, when Monsieur J made himself present in my life. The first thing the academic guy said was:
D do not get into him… he is a womanizer!!!
I paused, wondering if he knew that he was also one… Then he went on: “Of course like many of us.” I smiled... Yeah he knew…
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